I wonder why there are so much careless doctor out there and they can rich like a fat cow,eat well and sleep well. Why the life of a good people are very short? Like what we said human are so "Chemistry" (in chinese is "人真的很化学"). Life can be easy come and go.
Recent i feel i like sit on a roller coaster. Go up and down. Very happy cause my little nephew "come" to this world safely and my sis are safe and well too. But sudden feel very bad about my bro-in-law's sister had past away and she leave her new born son and a 3years old daughter.
My sis "bring" his son come when 12nd October 2009. We all hope so long to that day. Finally he come by operation. The baby got 3.3KG. Quite tall cause got 51CM. And look like his both parent. Mouth and nose look like mammy, the forehead just like daddy. Got an big eyes and its double-fold! Sure very handsome. Ha ha ha...
When we all are so happening about this. My bro-in-law's sister are feeling unwell about her heart. She got the heart problem since she get born. But she don't really like ko-kurikulum and activities so they all doesn't notice until she gave birth her first daughter (she is 30years old) by the natural way. The very famous heart specialist told her that her heart has holes and its getting big cause she natural gave birth. Gotta take operation as fast as possible. Of course they take what specialist told them. Very fast she got the operation succeed and living well with her husband and the daughter.
January 2009,she pregnant "accidentally" (she use to not to pregnant for her own health good). They went to the heart specialist and get the consultant. The specialist said :" You got the operation by me, natural gave birth is very safe for you. You even can gave birth 2 more children by natural way,its not a problem.". So they don't think want to do the abortion and no more worries.
September 2009,she feeling her heart are "abnormal". Can't breath well and beat very fast like she is running, running and running. She back to the Gynecology and heart specialist and specialist said :"its normal to a pregnant lady." After that her whole body getting edema(normally is foot and leg get edema only). She go back to the Gynecology and heart specialist again and the specialist said:" its normal.". The specialist are not do anything just give the consultant.
22nd September,she feeling hard to breath. Her husband bring her to the specialist again. The specialist are not there. So the hospital staff bring her go to have a heart scan. Here comes the bad bad news: half of her heart already no function,mean "half died". Same thing,gotta have operation as fast as possible. We all get shock when got the news.
Second day, They go back to have a discussion about the operation. They wait there around 2 or 3hours(emergency case still want to wait so long) until 6pm something and the specialist said:"Oh,its over office hour,anything we talk tomorrow morning."and go away. They all(her family) mad about this but they still wait for the specialist.
The third day,early in the morning,they wait the heart specialist meeting with the Gynecology specialist. Once she meet the specialist, they said:"we refuse to give you operation cause you will die." All the family member are stunt. Wait so long just to get a answer like this. Who else won't mad?
My bro-in-law "beh ta-han" and bring his sis away to another specialist. The another specialist said: "There are a private hospital and the charges are very expensive to this kind of case,you better go to the government's hospital." At last they went to UKM and have the operation to take out the baby at the fourth day. The operation are succeed. The baby are healthy and she is well too. What a good news!! They both are safe!! But til the fifth day,she look very very "white" and she breath harder although got machine to help her. Another bad news come:her kidney no function at the time(after the operation the body need 72hours to maintain) and the lung filled in some water. The hospital trying to rescue her and do the dialysis. That's the time,she "gone" and "back"(回光返照) 3times. But she still gone. She even haven't hold and see clearly her new born son. She really very bad luck and pity. No one notice that her heart problem whole life. Is it destined or careless about the doctor? Wish her rest in peace.
Recent i feel i like sit on a roller coaster. Go up and down. Very happy cause my little nephew "come" to this world safely and my sis are safe and well too. But sudden feel very bad about my bro-in-law's sister had past away and she leave her new born son and a 3years old daughter.
My sis "bring" his son come when 12nd October 2009. We all hope so long to that day. Finally he come by operation. The baby got 3.3KG. Quite tall cause got 51CM. And look like his both parent. Mouth and nose look like mammy, the forehead just like daddy. Got an big eyes and its double-fold! Sure very handsome. Ha ha ha...
When we all are so happening about this. My bro-in-law's sister are feeling unwell about her heart. She got the heart problem since she get born. But she don't really like ko-kurikulum and activities so they all doesn't notice until she gave birth her first daughter (she is 30years old) by the natural way. The very famous heart specialist told her that her heart has holes and its getting big cause she natural gave birth. Gotta take operation as fast as possible. Of course they take what specialist told them. Very fast she got the operation succeed and living well with her husband and the daughter.
January 2009,she pregnant "accidentally" (she use to not to pregnant for her own health good). They went to the heart specialist and get the consultant. The specialist said :" You got the operation by me, natural gave birth is very safe for you. You even can gave birth 2 more children by natural way,its not a problem.". So they don't think want to do the abortion and no more worries.
September 2009,she feeling her heart are "abnormal". Can't breath well and beat very fast like she is running, running and running. She back to the Gynecology and heart specialist and specialist said :"its normal to a pregnant lady." After that her whole body getting edema(normally is foot and leg get edema only). She go back to the Gynecology and heart specialist again and the specialist said:" its normal.". The specialist are not do anything just give the consultant.
22nd September,she feeling hard to breath. Her husband bring her to the specialist again. The specialist are not there. So the hospital staff bring her go to have a heart scan. Here comes the bad bad news: half of her heart already no function,mean "half died". Same thing,gotta have operation as fast as possible. We all get shock when got the news.
Second day, They go back to have a discussion about the operation. They wait there around 2 or 3hours(emergency case still want to wait so long) until 6pm something and the specialist said:"Oh,its over office hour,anything we talk tomorrow morning."and go away. They all(her family) mad about this but they still wait for the specialist.
The third day,early in the morning,they wait the heart specialist meeting with the Gynecology specialist. Once she meet the specialist, they said:"we refuse to give you operation cause you will die." All the family member are stunt. Wait so long just to get a answer like this. Who else won't mad?
My bro-in-law "beh ta-han" and bring his sis away to another specialist. The another specialist said: "There are a private hospital and the charges are very expensive to this kind of case,you better go to the government's hospital." At last they went to UKM and have the operation to take out the baby at the fourth day. The operation are succeed. The baby are healthy and she is well too. What a good news!! They both are safe!! But til the fifth day,she look very very "white" and she breath harder although got machine to help her. Another bad news come:her kidney no function at the time(after the operation the body need 72hours to maintain) and the lung filled in some water. The hospital trying to rescue her and do the dialysis. That's the time,she "gone" and "back"(回光返照) 3times. But she still gone. She even haven't hold and see clearly her new born son. She really very bad luck and pity. No one notice that her heart problem whole life. Is it destined or careless about the doctor? Wish her rest in peace.
